Questions for Dominants 04

4.      How old were you when you had your first conscious dominant experience, the first time you recognized what you were doing?

5.      What’s the best thing about being dominant, outside of play?
Well, see, I kind of answered 4 in 3’s post.  Serves me right for not reviewing them better.  🙂

Anyway, I think for me the best thing is not playing games.  I don’t have to pretend I don’t care where we eat dinner so you can feel big and bad and decisive.  I don’t have to play weird passive aggressive games to get what I want, I can say it.

I like being able to choose the work I do.  Sometimes it’s not that I like it – ask me how much I’ve ever loved typing up invoices for drew.  I don’t always enjoy it but I can assess my skills and preferences and the work to be done and decide.

I like knowing, frankly, that I can ask almost anyone to get me a drink or fetch my purse, and they will, without question.  I imagine if you asked those people why, their answer might well be, because you’re Ms Constance, that’s why.

And frankly, I’m good with that.

About MsConstanceExplains

Ms Constance has been actively involved in the BDSM/Leather community since the mid-1990’s. She is the Founder of the Louisville Munch as well as its hostess for ten years, from 1997 to 2007, and was christened as “Louisville’s First Lady” by her community. As a member of various BDSM/Leather organizations, she has been nominated for Pantheon Woman of the Year as well as regional awards, and has been nominated with her slave, drew, for Pantheon Couple of the Year. She serves as Special Events Director for the Great Lakes Leather Alliance. She produces the Bluegrass Leather Pride Contest, sending contestants to Great Lakes Leather Weekend, and was Presenters Committee Chair for Leather Leadership Conference 2010 Great Lakes/Ontario. She has produced and judged Leather events and contests, been instrumental in the organization and creation of various groups and clubs, advised and encouraged other communities and endeavors, and produced a performance by a BDSM comedian. Groups around the country use her writings in information and introductory packets, and she is an occasional columnist as well. She and slave drew hold the titles of Great Lakes Master and slave 2003.

Posted on September 29, 2012, in Uncategorized. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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