Questions for Dominants 14

15.   How many people in your social circle, if any, are aware of your lifestyle?

For me, this is kind of an obvious question because I talk so much about it, but it’s far less common to NOT know about my lifestyle.

drew’s family does not definitively know, though I think it’s clear that we’re different. I have told his brother’s wife that I direct the relationship, that’s what we agreed, but I leave it at that.

The brother in Scotland doesn’t know. Although he could figure out if he paid attention to my Facebook, so I don’t know if he does or doesn’t, I suppose.

Hmm. My 90 year old Aunt Jo, who still cleans houses because she likes to “keep busy,” doesn’t know. My 85 year old Aunt Mary also doesn’t know.

Work associates from prior jobs know in some cases, in some cases not. Same with current associates. Some yes, some no, some are kinky, too, because I know them outside of that association.

I think that might be, really, the size of it, at least in terms of anyone that could remotely be considered anyone important in my social circle and my family.

And on that note, off to bed. I never did talk about having lunch with aisha and C, but that’s for another day.

About MsConstanceExplains

Ms Constance has been actively involved in the BDSM/Leather community since the mid-1990’s. She is the Founder of the Louisville Munch as well as its hostess for ten years, from 1997 to 2007, and was christened as “Louisville’s First Lady” by her community. As a member of various BDSM/Leather organizations, she has been nominated for Pantheon Woman of the Year as well as regional awards, and has been nominated with her slave, drew, for Pantheon Couple of the Year. She serves as Special Events Director for the Great Lakes Leather Alliance. She produces the Bluegrass Leather Pride Contest, sending contestants to Great Lakes Leather Weekend, and was Presenters Committee Chair for Leather Leadership Conference 2010 Great Lakes/Ontario. She has produced and judged Leather events and contests, been instrumental in the organization and creation of various groups and clubs, advised and encouraged other communities and endeavors, and produced a performance by a BDSM comedian. Groups around the country use her writings in information and introductory packets, and she is an occasional columnist as well. She and slave drew hold the titles of Great Lakes Master and slave 2003.

Posted on October 17, 2012, in Uncategorized. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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