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Kink First – My First Threesome

What do you think it says about me as a person that I can’t really quite remember which one my first threesome was?

I *think* it was a sort of sex-and-kink lite experience with my submissive at the time, Gene, and a woman in the community way back when.

I remember we tied him to my bed naked and rather rolled around on him, doing various kind and unkind things to him, as whim and location dictated.

He seemed to enjoy quite a bit.

But there wasn’t any real sex involved, as there wasn’t any real kink involved.  Neither fish nor fowl, as it were.

I don’t think I’ve ever had a threesome with two men, which is, I suppose, rather surprising, all things considered.  Never happened that it happens.

I had a threesome with two of my married friends, J and m.  We had flirted with it for months and it was one of those things that you’d think, on the face of it, would work great, and was, as it turned out, a monumentally bad idea.

It took us a long time, a year and a half or more, with all three of us genuinely working at it, to lose that weird awkwardness that develops after a really uncomfortable sexual encounter.

We got over it, but none of us ever mention it, even in passing, or joking, which is probably a better sign than anything else of how bad an idea it was.

I set up, I swear to God, by accident a threesome with slave drew years ago by inviting a female friend, D, to spend the night and not realizing until later that what I had said had sounded TOTALLY different than what I meant to say.

Not that I meant to say, “I *never* want to have a threesome with you,” but I meant to say, “If you want to come over for the munch, you can sleep at my house.”

It was probably the most successful threesome I ever had, and I don’t consider that it was overly successful, but it wasn’t bad or traumatic to any of us.

D was cute, and smart, and funny, and had been switch-y and bottom-y before she found role, and I’d topped her in the past more than a couple times.

And so it probably went on for a few months, not really often, but often enough it was kind of ongoing for a little bit.

We didn’t really talk about it, that I remember, while it was going on, and I know we’ve not since.  No issues, no weirdness, it just wasn’t that big of a deal.  It was a relationship, not a Relationship, and we all got that going in.

Drama-free, basically.

It finally died a slow and painless death.  I think she started seeing someone and she spent more time with him and less time in Louisville or maybe there was a schedule change.

I forget, which also says how low-drama it was.

I’m trying to remember if there are any other threesomes in there…

I’ve had lots of threesomes that are more kink threesomes than anything else.  My friend Ms Tammy and I have played together with a single submissive more than I can remember, and sometimes it’s much more sexual for the submissive, but it’s mostly in a D/s format than a sexual format, if that makes sense.

I had a six-some once, too, but I have to say that group sex really isn’t my thing.  Too much to keep track of for me, I think.

I don’t have to count when people in the room were having sex, if I wasn’t involved, right?

Right?